You know, one day the world is going to end via myspace extremists. They will mark you through your vast network of 'friends, ' identify you through your many posted drunken pics, and track you with your contact info and comments. They
will find you. My god, you've made it easy.
Now, this is still a ways in the future. Like, 2 years. Come on, they have to get organized inbetween oogling naughty sites and catching up on their TiVo.
In the meantime, it seems that you all are working to kill each other over lame myspacey drama. Now, I thought that by not joining the stupid site, I would be avoiding all the stalkers, lonely losers, desperate bands, and all other issues. Turns out I was only half-right.
Now I get to hear about my friends and all their myspace drama bullshit instead. Secondhand drama is always lame. Secondhand social network drama is mega-uber-lame.
Too many of my recent convos have involved real relationships being threatened by electronic relationships on myspace. As in,
"We've been seeing each other for a month now, I thought we were, you know,
together. I check out his myspace and there's this girl that has been leaving him all these comments! Like, really flirty comments! And you should see her page, all her friends call her, like, hooker and slut.
Her friends. And her picture is so stupid...god you just need to see it. I'll send you a link since you're so anti-joining and can't just look her up. But get this, he comments her
back! With like, encouraging things about meeting up for something weird, like eating some thai. And she totally lives nearby, so he must know her and, well, see her. Do you think he's seeing her? Oh god, the last comment was like, 5 days ago. We hung out the past two days...so at least I'm winning right? Jesus, maybe he's sleeping with her after he says goodnight to me. Oh GOD
, I'm going to get the little hooker's
diseases!!"
I would love to act all smug and superior at this point in the convo. But then I recall that 1)I have no such real relationship to question, 2)that I have embarked on a 'whatthehellamidoing' thing with someone that has thus far included great convo and some good sex, but just may leave me whining and crying to her soon and 3)if I
were on myspace, I would totally be looking him up and no doubt be upset by whatever little thing I would find.
I thought we were grownups now. That the ridiculousness of high school hallway gossip, freshman year dorm rumors and sorority whisperings were done. That such drama was going to be based on reality now, instead of 5th-hand innuendo. Why oh why go back there again. Willingly no less?
I have another reason to try and stay off the grid now.